01
Catch the draft
Paste or share the text, email, or DM that needs a minute.
Regret-free replies
Pause anger.
Send clarity.
Calmly catches the message you're about to fire off, gives it ten minutes, and returns a version that says what you mean without the fallout.
No credit card · You make the final call
Draft intercept09:42
Before
“I'm tired of being the only one who actually follows through. Don't bother replying.”
Calmer version ready
“I'm feeling let down because I was counting on this. Can we talk about how we follow through next time?”
You stay in control
A ten-minute reset
Built for the moment before regret.
Not therapy. Not a productivity hack. Just a little distance between a strong feeling and a permanent message.
02
Let it cool
A visible ten-minute countdown breaks the impulse to send.
03
Choose clarity
Review a calmer rewrite, edit it, or walk away entirely.
Tone presets
Keep the truth.
Lose the heat.
Professional
Friendly
Blunt but kind
Private by design
Calmly doesn't send anything. Your words, your decision, your timing.
The goal
Say the hard thing in a way you're still glad you said tomorrow.
Simple by default
The plan is simple.
Start with three free cool-downs every week. Upgrade when you want the full reset on demand.
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$0 forever
Three cool-downs each week. No card required.
Unlimited
$4.99 / month
Unlimited cool-downs plus every tone preset.
Good to know
Before you hit send.
Does Calmly send messages for me?+
No. Calmly gives you a pause and a clearer rewrite, but you make every final edit and every send decision.
What counts as a cool-down?+
One submitted draft with a ten-minute timer and a calmer rewrite. The free plan includes three each week.
Can it still sound like me?+
Yes. Choose a tone, edit the result, and keep the point you needed to make without escalating the moment.
Breathe first. Send better.
Give your next reply ten minutes.
The right words are usually still there after the feeling passes.
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